Caring means your always going to be on the poorer end of the bargain and you don’t want that do you? Caring also means scarifying, giving a damn and getting hurt. Caring means you’re in touch with the human soul inside of you which leads to nothing positive unless someone really cares back soon enough. So lets get right to it while I give you 5 ways not to care.
1) Always remain distracted
IF you’re busy, reading an interesting book, watching a meaningful movie, reaching your goals and staying busy you don’t have the time to care about anyone else except your work. This leads to you turning into a soulless bastard but anyways, at least you won’t care cause you’re going to be too busy living a life unlike those idiots who really have nothing better to do than gossip and complain!
2) Increase your options wherever possible
Caring usually involves people. You care what people think, you care about your nasty boyfriend, you care about your best friend who does’t really bother much with you then start increasing your options. Meet new people who think better of you, get another boyfriend who cares better for you, ditch your best friend and get someone loyal like a dog or a cat (p.s they are loyal).
3) Believe in something that won’t break your trust
Putting your belief in things like family or god or even a good philosophical book can give you relief from caring!
4) Shut down and restart
If you seriously don’t want to give a fuck, reboot your mind every time it gets a bit of feelings inside itself. Say it out loud even if you don’t mean it; I DON’T CARE! Sooner or later you’re bound to float in the words you speak everyday!
5) Care enough that it spills over
Some idiots just keep on caring and caring when the opposite person is just using you. Have a limit. Stick to that limit. If you surpass your caring meter with that person stop and follow the above 4 ways I just spoke about.
Caring is not a bad thing but it can be wrong if you practice it with people who don’t return the favor.There is a clear distinct line of when its enough and when someone really needs you.. So take care of those extra caring-for-others cells in your body and use it for people who give a shit!
Until the next blog!