After a first date we usually get nervous trying to find the perfect signs or recalling previous moments that meant he’s going to ask you out again or that he enjoyed as much as you did. Here are 10 signs to calm those pulsing nerves down that would help you decide if your first date was a good one or not!
Sign #1 Few awkward moments
The most important barrier to overcome in a date is awkward moments of silence. If they were very few of them or probably none it means both of you were too busy having a great time to feel weird or out of place which is a rare factor on first dates!
Sign #2 He was smiling a lot
Boys don’t smile easily or laugh at jokes a girl cracks that easily and mean it. They are a tough crowd that way but that amazing laughter that comes from within them when you are really a funny person and you make him smile or laugh is something that doesn’t happen often and if you made him smile a lot throughout the date it means your magic has worked on him and he’s into you.
Sign #3 A little bit of touching happened
During a date both parties are a bit scared about touching the opposite person. It’s like you might catch fire with all that intense heat flowing in your blood but sometimes when the date is going good, the guy might just find an excuse to hold your hand or play with your fingers. If he tries holding your waist while you walk next to him, it is a sign that he either likes you a lot or wants to kiss you!
Sign #4 You had a really good time
The best judge of whether a date went well or not is you and only you. If you had a great time and if you think it went well then probably he felt the same way and he’s going to call you the next day or text you telling you what a great time he had! Pay attention to your intuitions and follow them because they are the best guide.
Sign #5 Both of you were feeling comfortable
Comfort is the most important ingredient to the first date. If you were happy and he was happy and feeling very open towards each other it means the date went quite well!
Sign #6 He showed interest
Guys don’t care what you ate for dinner last night or who your ex – boyfriend was. Some don’t even care about why you’re here on the date if they don’t like your personality or you! BUT if you can change that thinking and get him interested in knowing the number of cats you own or some crazy thing about you, you’ve got him centered. Men who genuinely show interest and remember what you are talking about are definitely thinking about more than a hookup!
Sign #7 He told you about something no one else knows
Boys don’t reveal their secrets on the first date. Some don’t even admit they are as nervous as you are but when a sentence that starts with; I’ve probably never told anyone this but…. It means you’ve struck gold and you are someone he can trust his secret with!
Sign #8 He spoke about his friends
Another thing boys rarely do is tell a girl about his friends on the first date. A first date is like a trial experiment to see if the girl is his type or not and so if he discusses all his close best friends with you, it means it definitely went well!
Sign #9 You got a goodnight kiss
Do I have to make it more obvious? If you got a nice romantic goodnight kiss at the end of the date, and all the tongues were in the right places inside the mouth and it wasn’t awkward it just means you just had the perfect date!
Sign #10 He made plans for a second date
Lastly and the most obvious part is he asked you out again at the end of the date and made plans for the future. He could also ask you out again through text the next day but it’s the same thing. If he asked you out again it means, you’re someone he wants to know more and possibly date in the future!
Until the next blog!