It should’t be this difficult. We are surrounded by billions of people and yet fail everyday to find somebody that loves us. Sure we’ve got friends and family and our pets and god to love us but its not enough. We want to find that ‘one’ person who drives to the edge of the universe. Who makes us smile on the stupid songs we listen to and remind us that all romantic movie moments can be lived in real.
We get bitter when we don’t find the one, we get desperate when someone gives us the slightest of interest. Some of us even go back to our ex’s, to the mistakes we made thinking maybe they will think differently now, he/she must have liked me a little at least right? We compromise when relationships aren’t going smooth, we give in to the not so perfect person.
We humans really take in the love we think we don’t deserve because honestly why should you deserve more? But do you really deserve less? What if you DO deserve more? What if we believe people who want to stay in our lives will and those who don’t won’t and we have to let those ones go because in the end no one can force you to stay nor them!
What if take a break from searching and waiting and live life as it comes. What if being alone is good for us? It’s a chance to love ourselves. A time to know exactly what works for you and what doesn’t. We’ve got friends, we have company, we always have someone to talk to, we’ve got our youth to travel, see the world, put in our trust in a stranger only to be broken to learn a lesson.
Being alone sucks but it also makes you grow. It gives you time to think and be by yourself. We came in this world alone and we are going to leave alone. Take in a day at a time and stop thinking your alone because you’ve got you AND you are never enough for yourself.
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