Often we tend to do stupid things like tell our crush we like them and they have no response, we bump into old friends who still dislike us and make us question our entire existence. Sometimes we embarrass ourselves at school or among cousins or relatives or whoever and then feel like there is no comeback but that is where you’re wrong. There is so much more to the person you are than that tiny stupid situation! Here are 5 ways or rather things you should when you embarrass yourself so that you can face those people who laughed at you or who you think find you weird and prove them wrong!
Move#1 – BE YOURSELF!
This is super common advice but to tell you the truth, if you love yourself and know yourself enough you’d never be embarrassed in the first place. Treat yourself as this awesome human being. Constantly feel confident and good about yourself and if people can’t see it then it’s their loss!
Move#2 – FIND THE POSITIVE SIDE
Told your crush you liked them and they didn’t reciprocate the same way? Great! Don’t feel awkward and weird, instead the next time you see them you should let them know; telling you I liked you was an actual compliment, so stop being so weird! When someone tells you that you like them don’t you feel good? It’s kind of like a compliment that the person is attracted to you. Think of it that way and carry on! You won’t feel that awkward anymore!
Move#3 – DON’T TAKE LIFE SO SERIOUSLY
Farted in front of the whole class? You’re the new laughing joke? You seem to look too desperate? Sometimes it’s all in our head. We make up concepts other people are thinking about when in reality there is so much more to do in life like build a career, get rich, get successful. Your life doesn’t have to revolve around that one awkward situation!
Move#4 – DON’T TRY PROVING YOURSELF TO ANYONE
If your worth it, if your an awesome human being, you don’t have to prove it and do something even more stupid. Prove yourself as an individual in your studies or at work. Show your potential to grow as a person and not prove to someone else but only to yourself that you will get somewhere in life.
Move#5 – DON’T BLOW THINGS OUT OF PROPORTION
Sometimes everything is right with the world but wrong in your head. Overthinking and constantly talking about it will only make the weird situation more weirder. Just believe like the event never took place and it will all be over soon!
SO don’t forget! Don’t blow up things in your head, don’t change yourself, don’t prove yourself to anyone, don’t take life so damn seriously and believe your worth every second of this world and you will cope up within days!
Until the next blog!