Love hurts because we let it. As stupid as that answer might sound it is true. We’ve all read about how we have the power to control our universe and events around it. While we might not be able to go to such a far extent of controlling events around us, we can surely control our emotions and become emotionally intelligent human beings.
Love is an act, a feeling, an emotion. When you are in love, more than the person at times you are in love with the feeling of being loved or wanted or desired. We project that emotion unto a person and thus feel like we can’t live without them. Well I say screw the emotion.
Take control of yourself and your life. Don’t let something non-existencial hurt you. Don’t let something that is within your power and control make you feel powerless and alone.
Be stronge mentally and physically and overcome these things pulling you down. You are so much smarter than that.
Love hurts because we let it. It is as simple as that. Stop letting an emotion hurt you and you will be okay. Don’t over think it, don’t drown yourself in pain.
Distraction is another technique we all know works in pain. Then do that. Distract yourself. You’ve got this! Now go live it!
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